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In February 2015 I went to a lecture in San Francisco about relationships that was being delivered by my mentor Gabby Bernstein.

This was the second in-person lecture that I attended of Gabby’s at the time.  The first was in April 2014 at the launch for her book Miracles Now.  I had heard about her about 6 months before that when my coach at the time recommended I check out her website in order to get online support from a community of like-minded women.

Because of my connections to her work, I heard of her new Spirit Junkie Masterclass in 2014 through conversing with others on

“Are you going?” someone asked me one day via the chat, “I literally just signed up the other day… I’m so incredibly excited!  It’s gonna be life-changing!”

To which I replied, “Unfortunately, I have too many things on my plate right now… so not this year”.  But, to be honest, I really had no intention of ever going.  I had already been investing my time and money on many other personal and business development courses.  I just didn’t see how this one was going to be any different.

So upon attending Gabby’s relationship workshop in SF in February 2015, I was going in with one simple intention: To see her speak live, get inspired and get some good tools to put in my pocket to take home with me and use in my daily practices.

We all came into the hall, took our seats, and Gabby was introduced.  She started it all with a meditation, of course, followed by the main lecture and then ended with a Q&A.

At some point in the Q&A a woman came up to the microphone with a question.  This person was working in as a therapist and wanted to apply the spiritual principles that she had been learning with her clients, but felt limited because “as a therapist, I can’t interject in that way like a coach can”.  I immediately empathized with her, given that I was doing substance abuse counseling at the time and had a similar frustration. 

Gabby answered the woman’s question and near the end of her response she briefly mentioned her Sprit Junkie Masterclass training and suggested that it may be beneficial to her.

As I was listening to this something in me perked up.  I felt like something was pulling on my heart and suddenly wanted to do some research and learn more about this training that I previously had no interest in whatsoever.

The rest is pretty much history.  I had no idea if I’d have the time and money to go, but everything miraculously fell together so I was able to attend the masterclass live in NYC.

… and it was worth every single penny.

The lessons learned and the transformation that happened upon attending Gabby’s masterclass is still very much so with me every single day.

Through the masterclass I’ve been able to:

  • Find my true voice
  • Share my message in the way that I feels truly in alignment with what I’m meant to do
  • Really step up in my own spiritual practice
  • Have greater confidence in what I’m here to do to serve the world

There was only one thing about the masterclass that I didn’t like: The fact that I couldn’t access the material again so I can go over it whenever I feel the need to.

But, Gabby has changed that!  She now offers a digital version of the Spirit Junkie Masterclass so you can access the material anytime, anywhere.  I have personally gone through the entire digital material at least 3 times and I can attest that it’s equally as transformative as it was when I attended live.

In this next video, Gabby invites you to join her Spirit Junkie Masterclass Digital training. During this 8-module online course, you’ll gain the confidence and business-building tools you need to live your highest purpose, make an impact and earn for your great work.

What’s amazing about the digital training is that you’ll feel like you’re right there in the room with her. You’ll be able to feel the energy of the group and get the full expression of Gabby as a teacher as if you were live.

In the 8-module Spirit Junkie Masterclass Digital course, you will:

  • Get step-by-step guidance on how to start or grow your spiritual business, get noticed by the media, and make money doing what you love.
  • Deepen your own spiritual practice.
  • Get inspiration and concrete advice from experts in personal growth and spirituality.
  • Learn how to turn your blog into a business, publish books, lead lectures and create digital courses
  • Create lifelong bonds with fellow Spirit Junkies on the private Facebook group and the live comment feed in the training community.
  • Start the process of becoming eligible to join Gabby’s referral network. When you receive your Level 1 certification you can attend the Level 2 course, where you can apply to become a Gabrielle Bernstein coach.
  • Join 2 live Q&A calls with Gabby.
  • Have access to an always-fresh, forever relevant program that you can revisit anytime.
  • Experience the energy and enthusiasm from the live training in the comfort of your own home.
  • Have the option to learn via video, audio, or typed transcripts — whichever format fits your learning style best!

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In honor of your commitment to your own personal and spiritual development, I’m offering $1999 in bonuses when you sign up for the Masterclass through me.

Bonus #1 - Write with Soul, Shine Your Light, 6-week course

I created my course Write with Soul, Shine Your Light especially for Spirit Junkie Masterclass grads.  After attending the masterclass I realized that there were many people who didn't feel public speaking was their niche and wanted to market themselves through writing instead.

This course is a prefect compliment to the masterclass for you if you want to start blogging and start marketing yourself by writing for websites like The Huffington Post and MindBodyGreen.

This course takes you from writing absolutely nothing to how to work once you get your articles published on major websites.

In this course we will cover:

  • How to Find Your Inspiration
  • What You Need to Know About the Writing Process
  • Everything You Need to Know to Be Successful When Writing Online
  • How to Share Your Blog with the Masses
  • How to Start Guest Posting
  • How to Handle Rejections and Criticisms
  • An Awesome Strategy to Really Get Your Writing and Work Out Into the World

In addition, I will share with you:

  • 3 Keys to Writing in a Way that Moves Others
  • How I Got Over 300 Subscribers from One HuffPost Article
  • A list of all of my current writing resources and potential websites that you can start writing for.

Bonus #2 - Your Power: How to Harness Your Energy So You Can Truly Shine, 5-week course 

If you are wanting to really work with others one-on-one or in groups, but you're not sure how to work with people and not feel drained and take on "other people's stuff" then this course is for you!

In this course we will cover:

  • How to Shift Your Mindset for Love and Miracles
  • How to Restructure Your Lifestyle So You Can Thrive
  • How to Let Go of What's Not Serving You
  • How to Lovingly Care for Your Body
  • How to Fully Step Into Your Power and Shine
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Bonus #3 - Group Coaching Sessions

By signing up through me, you will also receive 3 group coaching sessions.

Group Coaching Call #1 - Reduce Stress, Be Empowered & Serve the World.  In the first coaching call we will expand and go deeper into the concepts addressed in my course Your Power so that you have a solid self-care practice so you can raise your game and serve the masses.  You will also be able to get any of your questions answered on how to balance starting your business while still working full-time, how to work with people without taking on their "stuff", and so on.

Group Coaching Call #2 - Write with Flow.  In our second coaching call, you will have the opportunity to come in with any questions that you have about writing.  You can submit an article that you'd want me to look at and go over with the group, ask questions about headlines, how to get articles accepted for certain websites, dealing with writers block, and so on.  I will also share with you information you need to know about book publishing and freelance writing.

Group Coaching Call #3 - Open Q&A!  In our third coaching call we will have an open Q&A.  In this call you will have the opportunity to get any questions about the topics covered in the masterclass or in my courses answered.  This is your opportunity to ask anything and everything you want so that I can best serve you.

Bonus #4 - Ignite Love from Within: Meditations for Creating Relationships and a Life Filled with Love 

If you're wanting to infuse more love into your relationships and life, then this meditation album is for you.  How we are on inside effects our experience of the external world, so these meditations will help guide you to connecting to your own experience of love within yourself.  As a result, you'll be able to feel more calm, joyful, and supported and you'll be able to attract more love to you in your life.

The album includes 16 tracks with most over 10 minutes in length.  This totals the album to 3+ hours of material.  The meditation album is 100% digital in mp3 file format.

The meditations include:

  1. Becoming Calm
  2. Connecting to the Body
  3. Coming into the Now
  4. The Love Shower
  5. Cutting Cords with Others
  6. Freeing the Body of Overwhelm
  7. Setting Energetic Boundaries with Others
  8. Healing Blocks to Love
  9. Coming into Balance
  10. Finding Grace Through Gratitude
  11. Forgiving Others
  12. Seeing Others as Equals
  13. Awakening Your Inner Child
  14. Choosing a Loving Mindset
  15. Grounding into Your Power
  16. Manifesting Love

In addition, you will also receive my 70-page journal so you will be able to track and reflect on your meditation experiences every day for 30 days.

Upon signing up for Gabby's Masterclass through me, you will receive all of my bonuses, which is valued at $1999, completely free with no additional costs for the masterclass.

In addition, you will receive an e-mail with information to access to my bonuses on Monday, July 11th.

Are you ready to step into your purpose and get my bonuses?

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** The cart closes on Sunday, June 26. The course and all bonuses expire on Sunday at midnight ET. **

Much love you to,


P.S.  I only promote products and services that I have personally benefitted from and believe wholeheartedly that you will too.  Because I deeply believe in Gabby’s work and this program, I’m a proud affiliate of Gabrielle Bernstein’s Spirit Junkie Masterclass digital training.  I may earn a referral fee if you sign up for the program from my recommendation.   

How to Get Comfortable with Self-Promotion

One of the things that I know I’ve really had to work on in my journey of blogging, coaching, podcasting and so on is self-promotion.

For many of us, the idea of self-promotion can feel really “-ucky”, ingenuine, and just not very “real”.

However, the irony is that, if we don’t self-promote at all, then we can’t serve anyone!  Nobody is going to get our message and we’re certainly not going to be able to serve others and the world in the way that we are meant to.

My mentor Gabrielle Bernstein has managed to bust through these fears of self-promotion herself.  As a result, she has managed to promote herself so she was able to sit next to Oprah on Super Soul Sunday, be featured in the New York Times Sunday Style section, be featured on The Today Show and Dr Oz, and many more.

Being able to land these media placements has helped her Gabby reach an international audience.  And she has done it through being able to work through her own blocks and creating her own unique process to manifest media.

In Gabby’s third video, she tackles those fears and limiting beliefs head on.

In this video you will learn:

  • How to create a movement with your message
  • How to make publicity fun!
  • How to stand out in an overcrowded media landscape

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Click here to watch this free training video!

Much love to you,


This is What Blocks You From Success

Through the years, I’ve heard a lot of people share some their dreams and aspirations with me…

… I want to be a writer.
… I want to teach and host workshops.
… I want to have a blog like yours.
… I want to have my own podcast.
… I want to X kind of work so I can serve others.

But, more often than not, the statement is then followed up with something like…

… but I don’t have any money to do it.
… I can’t earn money doing that.
… I don’t know how to write a book.
… I don’t know how to start a blog.
… I struggle to write.
… I don’t know how to start teaching or speaking.
… maybe I’ll just “try it out” for a few months and if I’m not successful I’ll quit.
… and so on.

While some of these can be legitimate concerns (like figuring out how to set up a website so you can blog), as my mentor Marie Forleo says “everything is figureoutable”.

So, if you try, you can figure it out (trust me).  But what I’ve found is that, more often than that, what is really blocking us from fully boldly jumping in head first is our own self doubt.  It’s our own fear.

As a result of this fear, we start to create our own limiting beliefs and myths, like believing that we can never earn enough money doing the work we love or that, for some reason, we shouldn’t charge people for our work.  ‘Cause, you know, when you’re helping others it should always be free right? 😉 

My mentor, friend, and New York Times best-selling author Gabrielle Bernstein, busts these kinds of myths in her new free training video! In this video, she teaches the 3 most common mistakes that block you from earning for your great work and how to fix them.

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Click here to watch the video now!

Much love to you,


P.S. There’s another awesome video coming in a few days, so be on the look out!

The Key to Stepping into Your True Purpose 

Whether you’re fully aware of it right now or not, I know that you have a Divine purpose to serve this world in a big way.  That purpose is in perfect alignment with you and your gifts so that you can serve others to the best of your ability.

We all have our own purpose… and it is in perfect alignment with what our own unique gifts are.  They are all beautiful and magnificent in their own unique way. 

However, if you’re anything like me, then you’ve experienced doubt.  Maybe you’ve felt the call to grab an idea and make it a reality but your mind has come in with thoughts like…

… I don’t have enough money to do this.

… I don’t have enough time to do this.

… I’m not capable of doing this.

… I don’t have enough education to do this.

nobody is going to like my work.

… I’ll just be judged and criticized for my work.

… I’ll be a failure.

… I’ll never be able to make money doing it.

… other people have done it already.

… other people are better than me.

… I’m not good enough.

Well, I’m here to tell you that you are good enough.  You’re not serving anyone by playing small and staying locked up in fear.

This is one of the many lessons I’ve learned through my friend, mentor, and New York Times Bestselling Author Gabrielle Bernstein.  Gabby has been a life coach and motivational speaker for over a decade and she is committed to guiding us through what blocks us from truly stepping into our life’s purpose. 

For the next couple weeks, Gabby’s sharing 3 free videos that I thought would be extremely beneficial to you.  The material in these videos will help you clear the blocks to your confidence and give you the direction you need so that you can act right now.

There are a few common blocks that hold us back from truly and fully stepping into our true power and Gabby covers them in these 3 videos.

In this first video, she tackles the issue of confidence!  In this video, Gabby will teach you how to gain confidence so you can rise up, live in your true purpose and own your authentic voice.

She shares her own personal story of how she became a speaker, author and public figure with zero past experience or degree.  She also shares the 3 steps that helped her embrace her own power so she could step into her Divine purpose.

Through this video, you’ll be able to gain the confidence that you need to share your own transformational story in your own way so that you can truly serve others and the world.

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Click here to watch the FREE video!

Much love to you,



P.S.  I’m a proud affiliate of Gabrielle Bernstein’s Spirit Junkie Masterclass digital training.  I deeply believe in her work and this program.  I may earn a referral fee if you sign up for the program from my recommendation.

3 Essential Mindset Shifts to Living a Life You Love

Lately I’ve been on a kick in learning all about manifestation and happiness.  Reading books, listening to lectures, hearing about various meditations to try, and so on.

The motivation to really learn about all this has been coming from this deep inner frustration about one thing in my life.  So many other areas of my life I’ve been able to shift and make better, but in one area, for some reason, I’ve continued to feel stuck in this cycle that I’ve been unable to bust out of.

So, I figured, learning more about manifestation and achieving happiness in life would be beneficial.  In this process, I’ve come to several profound lessons where I have been able to feel some drastic shifts very quick.  So here are 3 essential mindset shifts that I think can really help us all live a life we love:

#1 – Realize that it’s not (and never has been) about where you are, but how you view it.

That shitty apartment your living in?  That toxic work environment?  That friend or family member that’s driving you crazy?  Sure, it makes things more challenging…

… but it shouldn’t be preventing you from experiencing happiness.

This was one of my first realizations upon moving to Korea and it’s taken quite a while for it to fully sink in:

It’s not about where you are in life, but about what you’re doing with what you have right now.


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If you’re pessimistic and bitter, then of course you’re going to be unhappy.  And sure, you can go ahead and start dating someone else or move out of the country, but nothing is going to change unless you do.  You’ll continue to carry those inner negative feelings everywhere you go until you decide, “Hey, I don’t want to feel that way anymore!”  So change your perspective.

#2 – Gratitude connects you to your soul. 

Always focusing on what we don’t have in life is very draining and keeps our minds locked into this state of fear and lack.  No miracles can emerge out of this if because it makes us blind from seeing the real opportunities that we have available.  It causes us to be trying to swim against the tide rather than to float along with it and trust.

So take some time each day in meditation to stop and connect to what you are grateful for.  Identify one thing — and it doesn’t have to be complicated.  This may be a person in your life, the fact that you have steady income, a pet, or the place you are living.  It could even be something super simple like the fact that the sun came up today or that there are birds chirping outside your window.

In meditation, visualize that person, place or thing that you are grateful for in your mind’s eye and then allow yourself to really feel the gratitude.  The shifts really happen from feeling, because it takes us out of our mind and into our hearts.  So be sure to really tune into that feeling and, overtime, you’ll begin to notice some definite shifts in your life.

#3 – Feel the way you want to feel right now rather than wait for something in your life to change.

A story I came across fairly recently was of a woman who had had a baby and was living on government assistance because her and her husband could barely afford basic cost of living.  Her husband ended up taking a job working at a place like UPS several states away because they were desperate for any money at all.

In her story she said that, while this situation didn’t appear so great on the outside on the inside she felt really truly happy.  She was enjoying life and really truly grateful for where she was at.  As a result, within just a few months she started a new work endeavor and ended up earning enough money in her new work that her husband was able to quit his job and move back with family.

The main lesson?  To start feeling what you want to feel “someday in the future” right now.

When I first heard this story my mind initially went to a fear-based thought of, “But if I feel all that joy and happiness right now, then maybe I won’t really do any actions to make changes in my life.  I’ll just be happy and stagnant”.

Clearly, this thought is really just a bunch of bullshit.

Because the second I decided to start feeling the way I’d like to feel “someday” I found myself feeling strong and confident in making decisions.  I started to feel more in-tune with my own intuition so I more clearly knew which direction I needed to take for myself.

So be grateful and choose to feel those feelings of happiness, joy, love, or whatever it is that you’d like to feel “someday” today, then simply be open for miracles.

Take action now!

Close your eyes and ask yourself: How would I like to feel “someday”?  Connect with that feeling in this present moment, then describe that feeling in the comments below!

5 Ways to Stop Self-Sabotaging Your Dream

We all have a dream. To do the very thing that we love to do that makes us feel fulfilled, vibrant, and more alive. The very thing that excites us every day and leaves us in a state of wonder over all of our opportunities for creation.

But how many of us actually make those dreams a reality? The trouble is that for many of us, we have these dreams but we stop before we even really begin. We have limiting beliefs that sneak in and tell us things like “I don’t have the time or money to start this” or “I’ll never be able to make a living doing that”.

Whenever these thoughts come up it feels like being a dog on a leash – you want to run and you have all the energy and inspiration to, but you have this collar around your neck with a leash attached to it holding you back.

So what can we do to stop self-sabotaging ourselves so that we CAN create the life of our dreams?

Keep focused on the dream.

Every time we make progress and a thought like “I can’t do this because…” comes up, we must to stop, breath, and focus on the goal. We must focus completely on the outcome that we want to create. The more energy that we put into focusing on that dream then the more fuel we give that dream over our mind’s pessimism.

Stay persistent.

Envision the dreams in our mind’s eyes and then create a plan. We need to ask ourselves: What can we do every day to take us one step closer to making our dream a reality? Everyone fails and struggles in the process of making their dream come true. Even Walt Disney had plenty of rejections, but he succeeded through his persistence.

Trust that our inner guide has all the answers we need.

During those moments when we have really been struggling to draft a plan on how to achieve our goal, stop and be still. The answers to all of our questions on our journey are already buried deep down within us. And, chances are, the answers may have already popped up in our minds as a thought or idea but we just haven’t fully acknowledged and accepted it. Pay close attention to those random thoughts and ideas as they come up.

Relax and be passive when we feel the need to.

Our modern day society has taught us that productivity is not occurring unless we are actively working. Guess what? This is not true! Our moments of relaxation, reflection and looking within are just as equally important as being active. We must learn to pay close attention to our own needs and desires at each given moment and trust that acting on them is exactly what we need to move closer to our dream.

Be patient and have faith that all will be okay.

Though we can set up a plan to make our dreams a reality, we can never really know the results so we must allow ourselves to trust and have faith. The results will come when they are truly meant to come, so we have to have patience and be easy on ourselves. The ego-driven habit is to worry and become restless. Breath. Enjoy the moment. Enjoy the process of getting there. After all, it is the journey through the obstacles that create greater depth and meaning than the outcome itself.



Stop Self-Sabotaging Your Dream TODAY!

What are some things that you’ve always wanted to do in life but you’ve never let yourself do it? What excuses have you been telling yourself? What can you do today to bring you a step closer to making that dream a reality?


The Truth About Discovering Your Life’s Purpose

We all want it. That very thing that utilizes all of our gifts and allows us to experience joy and fulfillment. Something to provide us with a sense of “I am of use”.

So we try out different jobs and activities. We go to school for another class or degree, we volunteer, or we go to workshops on things that interest us.

But, for some strange reason, we still don’t feel like we’ve really discovered our life’s purpose. Despite all of this work, we still like we’re wandering around aimlessly with no solid direction. We’re still unsettled cause don’t feel like we have it “all figured out”.

Well, I’m here to let you in on a little secret: When it comes to your true life’s purpose, NOBODY has it all figured out.

Allow me to explain…

You don’t discover your full life’s purpose in one big “A ha!” moment where everything magically makes sense and now you can plan the rest of your life out according to that realization. That’s not how it works. In fact, by taking that approach you are allowing the fear of your mind (or ego) rule your life and keep you feeling unsettled.

When you actually fall into your life’s purpose there really is no “discovery” at all. Rather, it comes from a place of simply doing all that you love to do without your mind coming in and telling you that you can’t or shouldn’t. You simply act out of the flow of your own creative nature without knowing what may happen or how it could work. It’s an act of pure faith.

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Click to Tweet: We discover our life’s purpose when we do what we love to do — unapologetically. @jenilyn8705

So here are a few questions to ask yourself that can help you fall into your life’s purpose. Sit down in a comfortable position and you may want to meditate for a few minutes by closing your eyes and focusing only on your breath. Get out a pen and paper, write down each question, and answer each question one at a time.

What do I enjoy doing?

What kinds of things do you experience joy when doing it? What are some of your interests? Do you enjoy cooking or painting? Are you a bit of a health or fitness nut? Do you enjoy writing or teaching? Write down whatever comes to your mind. Don’t think about it too much.

If I could do anything what would I do?

It’s time to really dream big when answering this! Write down answers from a place of “everything and anything is possible”. If you notice a thought come up saying something like “That’s ridiculous” or “I can’t do that because…” then ignore the thoughts. Don’t push them away or give them any attention. Simply recognize them and focus back on answering the question.

When you allow yourself to really dream big without any limitations you’re allowing yourself to connect with that part of yourself that already knows what you should be doing.

Are there any ideas that I have associated with something I wrote above?

These can be perfectly correlated to something written above or not. Write down whatever thoughts that come to your mind. If you find yourself worrying about whether it makes sense or not, then let it go and just continue to write down whatever comes to you.

Let me let you in on a little secret: To really fall into your life purpose kind of feels like you’ve just become a really good at winging it. The reason for this is because your mind thinks its just BS. Truly, its so much more than that because you’re allowing your creative self to really emerge.

Take note of which ideas have made you most excited. Focus on exploring those more. As you begin to explore those areas more you’ll begin to allow yourself to fall more into you’re true life’s purpose and begin to feel “I am of use.”

Start connecting to your life’s purpose TODAY!

What are some thoughts and ideas that came to you when you answered the questions listed above? What felt most profound? Which ideas made you the most excited? Share them below!


The Realization that Transformed the Way I Approach Life

As some of you may know from my About Page, a little over two years ago I moved to South Korea.

Prior to the move, I felt as if I had been doing all these things to make other people happy and that I was living someone else’s life rather than my own. I was tired, stressed, and not really taking care of myself the way I needed to be. I was drinking too much coffee and much more alcohol than I probably should’ve been in order to unwind from this “adult life” that I felt I was expected to.

I was worn out and I felt very disconnected from myself… I felt I had lost myself somewhere along the path of “growing up”.

So I packed away a year’s worth of clothes and belongings into two suitcases and, in a leap of faith, took my first 747 across the Pacific.

Weeks before moving, I kept daydreaming of all the possibilities:

“This is a foreign country completely different from here!”

“There will be so much to learn and explore!”

“How on earth could I NOT live in the present moment while living there? It will be so much easier to stop dreaming about the future!”

All of this was paired with idealistic dreams of effortlessly becoming a freelance writer on the side for extra income so I could later afford to live and teach in Europe.

… yeah right Jen.

During my first week in Korea, I quickly had a bit of a rude awakening.  I met up with fellow expats and found myself going along doing the same exact thing that I’ve done back home.  Talking the same way, acting the same way, saying things because I felt it was more socially appropriate while hiding my own genuine feelings for the sake of others.

I remember walking across an overpass after socializing at a bar with fellow expats when it occurred to me: This is NO different here than it was back home! I’m STILL struggling with getting lost in other people and I’m still drinking more than I want to be. It was then that I fully realized: Wherever we go, there we are. We can start dating someone new, we can make new friends, we can even move on the other side of the world but the one thing that NEVER changes is what WE bring to the table.


It’s been a long journey since I had that realization.  Though it is still a journey, I do feel that I have done a 180.  I’m so much happier and fulfilled.  For the first time since I’ve begun this true journey of “adulthood” I feel in tune with myself and truly on the correct path.  And even though everything may not be “perfect”, I’m no longer sad about any of the struggles but overwhelmed with excitement for what’s yet to come.

How do I do it, you ask?  Well, some simple things really…

1.  Taking time to either meditate, pray, and/or reflect in a journal every day.

2.  Focus on my own emotions as I’m experiencing them.

3.  Reaching out to find like-minded groups.

4.   Completely following the inner drive of what I want to do rather than what other people or society wants me to do.

It takes effort.  Afterall, it is a continuous never ending journey but the payback through the simplest of efforts is totally worth it in every way imaginable.  Life’s always going to be full of challenges, but the moment you accept the challenge and take full responsibility for your own actions in the situation then shifts start to happen.  It’s when you shift your thinking from the victimhood of “Oh I always get sh*t on in relationships…” to the excitement and boldness of “Alright universe, what do you got for me next?” that you really step up to the plate.

Are YOU stepping up to the plate in your life?  Are you completely owning that?  Are you ready to tackle challenges?  Are you ready to create your best relationships possible?  Are you ready to create a life for yourself that may be seemingly “impossible”?

This is why I am here today to help support YOU on your process. We all experience painful challenges in life and we all need support and help to work through those roadblocks. What I’ve realized through my own experience is that the greatest gift we can give ourselves in times of struggle is the support and guidance of others who understand.


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